Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Kallu, Kappa And Meen Curry

Trip home was short but I did try and make the most of it and it was good to have a partner in crime for the most part.

Tired the local toddy from the local liquor shop referred to locally as "kallu shap", thanks to my friend who was adamant and insistent. I tried to discourage him from drinking too much because I knew what is sold in these local shacks are not the authentic tapped toddy but the locally distilled "killer" (literally speaking) stuff. I could only take a few sips as it not only tasted disgusting but also had a distinct stink. My friend purchased a couple of bottles for later consumption and I am so glad to report that he is still alive! Although I must say I chickened out from going inside the shop and trying it. Blame it on the slightly derelict, shady look it had. So, thanks to my cousin's friend who acted as our delivery guy. Much later I came to know from one of my neighbors of a popular place in Cochin where you get the authentic stuff but by then time was short so that was shelved for later. Anyways, one experience checked off the list ..well partially. The original plan was to get into one of the “shaps” and try it . All said I am sooo glad my mom does not read my blog.


Visited the local market in town after a really, really long time. Maybe the last time I visited I was in 4th grade?! It was great to be in the middle of all the hustle and bustle and was particularly exciting to check out shops that sold indigenous kitchen ware, farm tools and other household goods. If baggage limits was not an issue I would have gladly shelled some INR and carried them over.

After the market expedition, took a trip down memory lane and went to one of the local coffee shops and had chai, South Indian style, served in steel cups with deep saucers. This was my old school/college hangout place. We went to (as I like to call it) the vintage section of the cafe and it was an instant hit with my friend. Adding to the experience, on our way out, we were approached by a stranger asking us if we would like to exchange some dollars. I guess seeing a white guy he automatically presumed. Although it was tempting as he was offering us a pretty good price compared to the exchange value at Delhi airport, better sense took over and we said thank you but no thank you and went our way.

It was elephant tail ring (embedded in silver or gold) next in the agenda and so one early morning (by jewelery shop standards) we landed in front of one of those humongous gold stores scattered across Cochin asking if they carried these rings. Apparently it is out of fashion and the couple of pieces they had did not fit. And so we decided to do the final thing on his to-do-while-in-Kerala-list which was to see the Chinese fishing nets but since he also had a plane to catch in a couple of hours we decided to take the route where he could see them en route. We had not even left the city when we figured traffic was going to be challenging and dropped the idea of taking the fishing net route and instead took the regular route.

Unfortunately/ fortunately (all relative) by the time we were done with our morning adventures, my friend missed his Delhi flight and had to rebook on a later flight. Getting into the next flight was an adventure in itself but not interesting enough to blog about. But then if he hadn't missed the flight we wouldn't have had a chance to try out some amazing boiled tapioca with red fish curry for lunch! All is indeed well that ends well.

(Title translation- Alcohol, Tapioca/Cassava and Fish Curry)

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Research and Crushes

I just got over my jet lag. Yes, this time I was hit pretty hard. Getting up everyday, until two days ago at 2:30 in the morning and then walking around feeling like my head swallowed a rock that was weighing down on my eyes all day. Weird description perhaps but if you can imagine it then that's how I felt. But the diligent, hardworking kid that I am (oh Come On! humor me), most of my waking, reasonably clear headed moments were spent preparing for my research proposal seminar.

I had to give a public seminar on my research proposal. Nerve racking is how I would describe it in a word. A bunch of students, professors and ofcourse my committee was present. It went well I think. Got some good questions and tried to give some good answers. Except, there was this one professor who was in ballistic mode but I managed to dodge all the missiles she was shooting at me. Anyways, as the saying goes "All is well that ends well".
But, alas! good endings don't happen all the time, sometimes not even good beginnings. My point being---
I have a serious, major crush on someone. I am hook, line and sinker in crush. Yes, crush is a good word for now. Desire, love....too intense and dramatic! It is so bad that I am having conversations with him in my head. Yikes! (and I thought I was avoiding drama). The sad part is, many girls feel the same way about him and it is double sad that I don't hold a significant presence in his life either *sigh*. One of those, one way, long distance crushes doomed to fail from the start *sigh again*.

And call this being self-destructive if you must, but I am listening to Norah Jones singing "come away with me" over and over again. What can I say- sometimes despite my age and maturity I go through these teenage emotions. I know many does but not everyone admits it. Right?

I need to blog about my India trip. Ah! happy thoughts!

Thursday, January 12, 2012

Happy (Jet-lagged) New Year!

Back after a short trip "home". The traveling was ridiculously long this time; something that could not be helped since the entire trip was done on a super tight budget and when budget is tight in air travel it translates to longer time in the air and at airport lounges. But, despite the long transits, the lack of sleep and not to mention the multiple time zones crossed, I am grateful to my kind, generous professor for sponsoring the trip. I made this trip with some specific plans in mind, but considering the limited time I had, the unexpectedness of events that is typical of my lovely, sprawling country, or the casualness with which pre-set appointments are treated (a nicer way of saying how they are forgotten) and as if I asked for more, my mother's minor accident that left her rather helpless and needing help with pretty much everything, not all of what I had in mind was accomplished. Nevertheless it was exciting. Someone new to the country had joined me this time and although he was there only for a couple of days, it was great fun showing him around Delhi and Kerala..well, a bit of both. Perhaps a separate post on that later.

But I would say the cherry on the icing for me was getting to see the Himalayan peaks at 36,000 ft, sticking above the clouds!! Majestic, grand all these adjectives fall short, really. We were flying from Tokyo to New Delhi, scheduled to reach Delhi at 6:30 pm and our flight route was over China, Tibet, Nepal and finally New Delhi. This sighting was possible as it was a day flight and when the pilot announced I requested the old Korean lady sitting next to me to open the window. She did not quite understand what the fuss was about, but the two people in her travel group sitting in the front row got all excited and although they did not speak English and me Korean we still managed to communicate our excitement. The guy in front looked at me and said excitedly "The Himalayas!" and I responded excitedly- 'Yes! The Himalayas'!. That was all that was needed to be said and we all sat silently observing the never ending sight in awe until it became a bit monotonous!

The other slightly exciting and unexpected event was the overnight stay in Tokyo. The plan was to spend time at the airport to save on hotel but reaching Tokyo we were told by the airport staff that overnight passengers are not allowed to stay in the airport. With no hotel reservations, no transit visa and no local contact info for Tokyo it was rather unnerving. Luckily the airline ground staff were the understanding and the helpful kind and they made the hotel arrangements and after going through immigration the night was spent on Tokyo soil. I can now claim that I have a transit Japanese visa on my passport, stayed in Tokyo for a night and saw a bit of Tokyo (this is the 15 min bus ride from the aiport to the hotel). Domo Arigato JAL!

Short trip yet I can go on for ever. Lots to share but work awaits so latersss!

Friday, December 23, 2011

Merry Christmas Everyone!

Predictable title and a long rambling post. Nothing defines BORING better than this to me. But, if you are here, then go on, take a risk :).

Hmmm....so whats the latest at my end? Well....

The school may be closed for winter break, but here I'm, typing this post at work. I had to come in everyday this week, and work double time too! The department that I work for is kind of an important department within the University system and cannot afford to be closed down for the entire winter break. So we are open, running on a "skeleton crew". This means, those like me, at the bottom most rung of the organizational ladder are expected to show up everyday and those higher and above get to take turns. Actually, it is not as pathetic as I am making it out to be . With my upcoming travels next week, I will be off work for almost 3 weeks and I volunteered to work double time to make up for my absent days.

Work has been slow too. It was a bit hectic the first couple of days but since then it's slowed down so much that all I did (well mostly what I did) was read blogs and work on some teeny bit of school related work.

The lab party that I mentioned in my previous post went quite well. Our prof showed up late as he was stuck in a meeting at the other end of town. After a couple of phone calls from us to him we made a unanimous decision to start without him. It was definitely a better plan than passing out from hunger! ANYhows..as expected, the food was spectacular!-

Biryani made by our Pakistani lab mate,
Baba ganoush and Hummus w/ Pita bread by our Iraqi lab mate,
Aloo Gobi by our Nepali lab mate,
Ahi-poke bought by one of our American lab mates and the drinks was on the other and "Tandoori" chicken with green pepper by yours truly.

Delicious would be an insufficient word to describe the dishes..except for the Ahipoke (which is basically raw, fresh tuna marinated in different sauces). Since I do not eat raw meat of any kind I do not know first hand on how good it was but seeing my lab mates going in for seconds it can be fairly concluded that it was delicious as well! I like food but I am not as adventurous as I would like to be with food. I LOVE watching Andrew Zimmerman and Anthony Bourdain and consider them two of the coolest people on this planet, after Ian Wright of Globe Trekker i.e.
(One reason why I love twitter - you can follow people you are interested in without appearing like a crazy stalker
and although I would love to follow Mr Right (I mean Wright) in real life, considering how unlikely that is, I am quite happy following him on twitter - for now. I mean- dreams shouldn't have any boundaries Wright? (I mean right?)).
And although I aspire to be cool foodies like Zimmerman and Bourdain, I can never gather the courage they show in trying out different food from different lands and often consume them with relish and gusto!

And speaking of food, my kitchen cabinets got a fresh coat of paint and has a sweet, clean, fresh look. Lots more I want to do to make it look sweeter but time and finances need to happen simultaneously which is a rare occurrence in my case. Then on second thoughts, since this is just a small, temporary, rental accommodation I wonder if I should be dedicating all the time and money to pretty it up only to move out later. Then on 'third thoughts' (if there is such a thing) I tell myself-as long as I live here, its my space and if keeping it a certain way makes me happy and since happiness (most times) come at a cost, then I must! In other words its time and money well spent.

It is almost the weekend and some friends are coming over and we will all eat and be merry and I believe it is also some one's birthday. Merry Christmas everyone!

PS: I wish I had pics to accompany my ramblings but alas! this aspiring photographer ( one among many other aspirations ) often forgets to take her camera along! Something to be kept in mind for the next post perhaps.

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Possibilities

Something I want to do- Adopt a baby, preferably a girl. In my heart I am convinced of how wonderful it would be to have a daughter. I am having a hard time convincing the family though- on adoption i.e.

Anyways..

Wasn't it just a couple of days ago I declared I have "free time" in hand.? I guess I jinxed myself as this week and the next promises to be mad, hectic. Of course all depends on how much of my procrastinating urges take over my discipline. If the former happens I might find myself with plenty "free time" but with the nagging thought of all the impending work I am not sure how relaxing it will be, especially since I travel the week after next.

But all is not work and madness. There are a couple of fun things on the card.

An upcoming lab get together this week and I will be bringing my famous & delicious ( eh, I think you are legally (and clinically) permitted to make such self-declarations and/or have delusions of grandeur within the limits of your own blog) "tandoori chicken" ( well my version of it) and with lab mates from Nepal, Iraq, Pakistan and US it should be an interesting buffet.

The weekend promises to be fun too depending on what I end up doing. There are a couple of movies to catch at the theatre--something I have been neglecting (yep, I will use words like neglect and movies in the same line, implying it was grossly irresponsible of me. I guess I am a movie buff!).

There is also a plan to have some friends over as its been ages since we got together at home. Every time we meet at the campus our parting line is always-"hey we need to get together soon sometime" followed by "as soon as things slow down a bit" which never happens of course. Now with winter break approaching and the finals almost done, a weekend party is a possibility. But I also wanted to paint my kitchen shelves white! So what is it going to be-socializing or housekeeping?! I'll wait and see what happens. Wish I could do it all but alas! the weekend is only 2 days long!

So many possibilities, so little time and so says a certified procrastinator .

Friday, December 09, 2011

"Tell The Way You Remember It..

...not the way it happened"- Finnegan Ball

I have a mad crush on Finn (Pip). I had almost forgotten. Then I refreshed my memory and it all came back. But I love Joe. Such a nice man.
Estella, a pretty snob and nothing much.
Ms.Dinsmoor (Ms. Havisham), heartbroken and eccentric and nothing more.
The fugitive, the benefactor.
The rest, insignificant.

I have free time in hand and I am watching movies, the old forgotten favorites. Just finished Great Expectations and now I am on to The English Patient and it is only about 10pm. Needless to say, I am pretty good at pointless pursuits.

Tuesday, December 06, 2011

ABD

Relief is what I feel. It is done- the written exam, the orals and all the crazy stress. Now my status is "ABD", which is a grad school lingo that stands for Anything But Dissertation, which technically means I am not a PhD student anymore but- advanced to candidacy.

Now for the proposal defense, the field work, the data collection, the analysis, the hypothesis testing, the interpretations, the writing, the presenting and defending all that you did. Yikes!
May the force be with me(I would have settled for Capt. Hans Solo but obviously God has other plans for me).

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Nothing Much Actually

Crazy things happen, we pause, we ponder, we sigh and we move on. At least that's what I am doing or did.

Things are getting hectic at school with the semester drawing to an end. I have a couple of paper submissions after which all official semester requirements will be done. But, work will go on, polishing my proposal and reading up more material on it. There was a lot of school related reading this semester and hence motivation to read anything outside of "required" reading was low. Most of my free time was spent watching and re-watching movies or staring at design blogs and books followed by boundless day dreaming or finding new music on youtube.
Speaking of music, I am currently listening and head bobbing (Yes, not head banging) to this.I heard its quite the rage in India, across state borders, from South to North.

And, to part on a happy note, sharing some funnies as in funny/cool t-shirt prints!


(All images src: http://www.noisebot.com)


More can be found/bought at this website. They also have hoodies and they come in different colors too! Ain't that cool?!

Happy Thanksgiving!

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Farewell At The Beach

Today was a rather windy, downcast day.Normally I would have loved this weather but today I was in no mood to enjoy it. In fact the whole weekend was spent in a bit of a daze. To say this past week was eventful would be an understatement.
Anyways, a group of us got together at the beach to bid farewell to our dear friend. We created a makeshift shrine with some gorgeous pictures of her, flowers, incense sticks, candles and a statue of The Lord of Dance-Natraj a.k.a Lord Shiva (which is apt). In a circle, quietly praying, thinking of her, few words of remembrance and then scattering flowers into the ocean we bid our goodbyes.











Thursday, November 17, 2011

My Friend The Dancer-Scholar

Performing at the University- doesn't she look awesome?

Originally from Canada, she is a student at the University here, getting her PhD from the Dept of Dance & Theatre. We were introduced by a common friend a couple of years ago. As her subject was Kuttiyattam, a traditional dance-drama from Kerala, it was important that she learn the language or at least be able to speak or understand it at an elementary level and our friendship grew over many long lunches and discussions conversing in and on Malayalam, on Kerala, the culture, the people and on dance. I remember the fun and excitement of helping her out (in a small way) to organize the Kathakali workshop here at the university. When my mom was here visiting, she would come home almost everyday to learn some Malayalam from her. A few months ago she successfully passed her PhD comprehensive exam and moved to Kerala for her field work. She reached a couple of days before I was to leave Kerala and so we had a day to hang out in Kochi. It was fun and we went to Fab India to pick some Indian outfits for her and ate Dosas from BTH and she was telling me about all her plans while in India. She was so excited and looking forward to her dissertation field work in Kerala.

You just have to meet her and talk to her for a few minutes to realize how much she loves dancing and how passionate she is about it, particularly Bharatnatyam and Kuttiyattam. She has been learning Kuttiyattam at Kalamandalam preparing for her first performance (Arangettum) early next year. Myself and a bunch of her other friends would get regular updates from her on her experiences in Kerala through these long, descriptive emails which are always interesting and often amusing. Here is an excerpt-

......."I have decided that for me doing field research is like walking in a dark, unfamiliar room. You mostly bump into things and receive minor bruises until you stumble upon a light that leads to more and more treasures. It is definitely a great experience most of the time even
if you are scared of the dark. I don’t think I am as afraid of the dark as those HUGE ancient spiders that prevent me from using the toilet or opening a door when they decide to camp out! I actually don’t mind walking around in the dark, my eyes adjust very well. This is really funny too, because my friend and I were having a discussion about how we as a species are adapting to needing so much more light than we used to ever need, and we are losing our ability to, as he said “see in the dark” . . . whether you want to take this literally or as a metaphor is completely up to you. But the discussion started when I was mentioning how I much prefer watching kutiyattam with the natural lighting of just the oil lamp as opposed to all the artificial stage lighting that they are now using. There is much more ambiance,
magic and mystery..............................................
............And with that, I shall leave you to think about coming to Kerala in
February or March to support me in my arangetram ;) or at least to
think about those scary spiders".

I spoke to her on the phone a couple of weeks ago when she was home visiting my mom. She had just gotten back from her trip to Combodia . She and I spoke for long and we made plans to travel around Kerala and catch some traditional temple performances across the state during my next visit. She had already established some good dance & theatre contacts in Kerala and which would help us in planning the trip. Last week she turned 30 and celebrated it in Goa with a friend.

After returning from Goa, day before yesterday, she passed away, apparently from complications following an asthma attack. She was a chronic asthma patient and was always in and out of hospitals be it here or in India. But to die at 30, so suddenly!?! I am not sure how to make sense of this. Sometimes I can't stop the tears and sometimes I become all philosophical, questioning everything- the meaning, the purpose and what not.

All I know is I will miss her greatly. R.I.P dear friend.

Saturday, November 12, 2011

All This Time..

..Been reading, thinking, listening, watching, dreaming and musing. Engaged in a lot of activities basically. "Get inspired" is the general disposition and so totally loving this and this.



Also, nurturing my design sensibilities through a couple of design blogs I stumbled upon rather serendipitously(yea, dont I scare you with my complex vocabs)and so in love with my new acquisitions.. This one is by an art student at the university. He had quite an interesting collection of quirky pottery but I had only limited means in my hand and spent it on this little "glass". That's his initials on the bottom which is good I suppose. What if he becomes a celebrated sculptor/potter/artist in future? Now if only I could remember his name!

Well, there is no cool story behind this one. It was on sale at a local grocery store and I bought it because,.......because I liked it. It definitely keeps the tea hot longer, thanks to its deep, small rimmed cylindrical design. Also, doesnt it look nice and sleek?

Watched the movie Invictus yesterday and the President is in town as the APEC maddness descent and protesters fine tune their rhetoric.

Saturday, November 05, 2011

The Musical Me -II

As for Gazals- I was never much of a Gazal enthusiast (Hindi or Malayalam) with all its weepy, sad, self pitying undertones. Nope, not for me. I mean I do sometimes go on self-pitying, self-loathing trips ( that's what Kishore K was for back then ) but Gazals have a way of inducing these emotions even if you are feeling ok with life and everything else.

All said (here I go contradicting myself) there are a few recent (Hindustani/Gazal influenced) Malayalam songs ( with the exception of one) I like and I like them because they were either part of a movie I liked or the context in which it was sung or the lyrics or the music or both. That brings the total number of songs in this offbeatcategory-I-love-list to exactly 4 and in the order of preference, they are:-

1. From the movie Perumazhakalam- Raakilithan. Gosh! I get all overwhelmed every time I hear/see this song. You will too if you think there is something magical about monsoons.

2. From the movie Meghamalahar- Oru naru pushpamay. One of the best adult type movies I have seen. Now don't get me wrong ..adult not in an-all gory violence and/or naked bodies kind of way, but adult in a very emotionally mature kind of way. Too lazy to give you a synopsis and even if I did you would get all judgmental on me. Yes, I am insecure- sometimes. So ?

3. A Gulam Ali gazal( to my knowledge it was not part of a movie).- Tamam umr..- This is sort of the exception to the rule. The only non-malayalam song in the list and I love it for its lyrics, his voice and the music. Ironically, the first time I heard the song, it was sung by a mallu guy, with an awesome voice, in Hindi ( laced with a slight mallu acent and everything) on some tv talent show and still did not spoil it for me. For those who can follow Hindi -
" तमाम उम्र तेरा इंतज़ार हमने किया
I waited for you all my life
इस इंतज़ार मे किस किस-से प्यार हमने किया"
And while I waited I loved many (I don't know who all (sort of implied))

4. From the movie Ore Kadal- Oru Kadal- For various reasons, one of which is- I will watch anything that Shyama Prasad makes and will say how much I love it even if I didn't, which is highly unlikely, because I will always like what he makes (I just drew a circle-didn't I?). His movies are unique and interesting and I guess he expects the same standards for the songs he includes in them.

I just yawned but cannot sleep yet. So may the music begin-!! and who can stay still with this music?!?

kesa sharmana aja nach k dikha de
aa meri hoja aa parda gira de
aa meri akhiyon se akhiyan mila le
aa tu na nakhre dikhaa
wanna be my chamak chalo
ooh ooh ooh ooh
wanna be my chamak chalo
ooh ooh ooh ooh

(OST-Ra-One)